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Why the Guestlist Needs to Be Finalised ASAP When Planning an Event

If you are planning an event, you need to make sure that you finalise your guestlist as soon as possible. It does not matter whether you are planning a wedding, an event for work, or even a children’s birthday party, you need to make sure that you have the guestlist for the event down as it allows you to plan so much more. Without knowing who is going to be coming to your event, you can’t progress planning in many other areas.

Get the Invitations Sent Out

Once you have decided who is going to be on your guestlist, you need to get your invitations sent out as quickly as you possibly can. Make sure that there is a clear RSVP date on the invitations so your guests know when they have to reply by. You also need to make sure that you are sending out any invitations with enough time for your guests to work out whether or not they actually will be able to attend the event.

For this reason, online invitations can be a great idea. They will be sent out in an instant, so you can be certain that they will arrive in inboxes much faster than if they were to go out by mail. Greenvelope’s online invitations can be used across a variety of events, and can be just as beautiful as printed ones. On top of this, they can also collect useful information that you will need to know for the final event. Having all of this information available in a database online can be far more convenient than if you were to have to input all of it yourself from paper forms sent with printed invitations.

Venue Capacity

When you book a venue for an event, you will have a certain capacity that you need to stick to. Smaller venues might only be for 40 people, larger ones could be for 200 or even more. It can be surprising how quickly your guestlist can fill up with people who just have to be there.

If your venue has a strict capacity, you might have to be ruthless with who you invite. The sooner that you are able to confirm the guestlist, the sooner you will be able to pass these details across to the venue so they can start making their own preparations for your day.

Dietary Requirements

If you will be serving food at your event, you need to make sure that your guestlist is finalised as soon as possible so you know what dietary requirements your guests might have. These can range from a choice of diet that they might follow such as veganism all the way to allergies that require gluten or nut-free meals.

You need to make sure that you can pass on as accurate a list of requirements to your caterers as you can manage. This could affect your menu quite significantly, and they could have to ensure that they carefully prepare your guests’ food to avoid cross-contamination. The sooner that you can give them this information, the sooner they can begin to come with dishes that will suit your event.

Seating Arrangements

Finally, you need to finalise your guestlist as soon as possible as it will allow you to being to work on the seating arrangements for the big day. This can be a real headache, so the sooner you can get everything finalised the better. A seating plan is never as simple as it initially seems. You will find yourself having to make constant adjustments to it, so the sooner you can start on it the closer you will get to the perfect arrangement!

There is always the chance that you could invite two people who don’t usually get on to your event. It just wouldn’t be fair to leave out either of them, and you can rely on them to be civil at the actual event. However, asking them to sit at the same table could be asking for trouble. It might be better to try to keep them apart, and the best way that you are going to do so will always be with the seating plan.

Planning a big event will take a lot of effort on your part, and so you need to make sure that you are always prepared to take on the challenges that it might throw to you. Part of this will be managing and finalising the guestlist for the event. Though you might be tempted to focus on some of the more fun parts of event planning, there are some important factors that you need to sort out first. One of these will always be your guestlist, so make sure that it is finalised as soon as possible.

Party in the Neighborhood and Chores at Home

Does your neighborhood have a social (or any kind of) committee? Ours has a social committee, which Going Mom is a part of, and they planned an awesome summer kick-off party for all our neighbors to attend.

Being the husband of a committee member, I, along with a few other husbands, had the pleasure of helping out with the event. I loaded Avery’s Fisher-Price Basketball goal to bring  (it ended up being a “slam dunk”) and helped with the kid’s fishing station. We didn’t know so many kids lived in the neighborhood until our big party. It’s great knowing there are so many playmates right in the hood.

Hopefully they won’t become hood-lums as the get older and terrorize all of us parents. Just like I (neverdid when I was a kid. Sorry, Mom. Not that I’m concerned our little angel would cause any trouble when all she want to do is play with bubbles.

Bubble Play at Neighbhorhood Party

The bubble machine was THE highlight of the party for our little girl, and many others. Then there were the piñatas.  Going Mom was in charge of buying these, and she chose the coolest turtle piñata for little kids…

….and a giant flip flop for the older kids.

I’ve been part of a piñata massacre before, but never a turtle; it hurt to watch.

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No pictures of the abuse, but if you’ve seen an mob of zombies hovering over a fallen human on the The Walking Dead, it’s basically the same thing. Only kids are the zombies and scattered candy is the fallen human.

Avery has yet to taste candy or anything that’s basically pure sugar, so she didn’t care much about what came out of the papier-mâché vessels. I know the day will come, but until then, we’ll enjoy her not begging to satisfy her sweet tooth unless it’s something we  ourselves.

The party was a major hit for the neighborhood and we’re all thankful for an awesome committee. I suggested another party with a Midsummer’s Night Dream theme. Sounds cool, but I guess I wouldn’t be the one doing all of the hard work, so I won’t push it.

The rest of the weekend was low key with us just taking care of chores around the house. Avery made sure to help when and where she could.

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I’ve got Mommy’s back….literally.

My wife continued her paint everything beige project around the home and enlisted the help of some non-toxic finger paint from Alex Toys to keep our toddler’s wondering hands busy.

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And guess what? It worked!

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After finishing in the kitchen, I sat down and painted with her to make sure she kept busy. The paints are nothing great, but they are inexpensive and colors go on paper. That’s all toddlers care about! I still have yet to help with the actual painting.

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Sorry, wife. Hope you still love me!

That’s about it for our weekend of fun, cleaning, and projects. This time next week, we’ll be living it up in North Carolina at the Outer Banks. It will be Avery’s first trip to the ocean and we’re excited to play in the sand with our beautiful girl. The sleeping arrangements, on the other hand, are something we’re not quite looking forward to. We’ll be in bunk beds with me on the top and Going Mom on the bottom with Avery. Sounds simple, but from what I posted on Instagram the other day, well, I’ll let you know afterward.

Our Daughter’s Birthday Recap: She’s Freakin’ Two!

To clarify, this is a recap of her birthday party, a day before her actual birthday, but close enough. Low key and no frills was the objective, and I’d say we mostly succeeded with our mission. A few friends and family came over to wish our growing girl happy 2nd birthday and we avoided any kind of major drama.

Just like the format of my Roller Coaster Recap of August, I am going to recap her birthday in High-Low fashion. And, just as before, the plan is to end on a high note!

High – Just the fact that we’re celebrating the 2nd birthday of our beautiful, smart, healthy, and happy (most of the time) little girl is awesome! It’s cliche, but true, they really do grow so fast!

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High – Opening a gift from G-Ma in bag with polkadots. Gasp, and her shirt has polkadots!

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Low – Avery was overwhelmed by so many people giving her so much attention all at once. So I helped matters by sticking a camera in her face to capture the moment.

Can I just eat with my turtle in peace?!
Can I just eat with my turtle in peace?!

High – Going Mom kept decorations simple yet elegant, and the food was placed for easy access.

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Low – We had a nice assortment of Beanitos Black Bean Chips, crudites, hummus, and cupcakes homemade by a neighbor laid out for our guests. Unfortunately, we completely forgot about the giant bowl of fresh strawberries in the fridge and Costco-sized peanuts we were going to set out too.

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High – Avery loved her trampoline birthday gift and got to jumping right away! Hellloooo, nap time!

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Low – Nap time never happened.

Why sleep when I can jump? It's my party afterall!
Why sleep when I can jump? It’s my party afterall!

High – I made chocolate protein pancakes with a banana, NuttZo and chia seed frosting for her birthday cake.

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Low – My decoration skills fall somewhere between 0 and a negative number. That’s supposed to be a “2” on top.

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Low – Damn teething took no pity on the birthday girl, or so that’s what we’re going with.

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High – Singing “Happy Birthday” to our sweet girl. She kept clapping for herself after everyone had finished 30 seconds earlier. She really likes clapping.

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Low – Oops, too much attention on her again!

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High – Mommy makes everything better and even helps blow out the double bonfire on her cake.

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High – Avery had no issue with my cake construction and tore right into her healthy confection.

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High – She even saved a bite for me and flew it first class into my mouth on Air Fork One.

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HighAunt Lindsay taught her to say “I’m free!”

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High – Having fun with friends Zoey and Natalie.

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Low – Crazy demon parents (that’s us) put her back in the highchair to recreate a picture from her first birthday. Not a fan.

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High – Holding two fingers to show her age in a fun family photo. She’s much happier when being held.

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Other than the several meltdowns resulting from too much in-your-face attention and teething, the part went fairly smooth and it was nice to see everyone. We’ll be the first to admit that we’re not great entertainers, but it seemed as if everyone was pleased. Either way, we appreciate everyone who came by to wish our sweetheart a Happy 2nd Birthday.

Now the real fun begins, right?