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Keeping The Kids Busy This Summer Vacay

The school vacation days can be quite overwhelming for parents, can’t they? Weeks and weeks ahead, with no clue how to keep children of varying ages occupied and happily so. Sometimes, parents don’t get the chance to be out of work with their kids, so it’s up to summer camps and sitters to keep them occupied. The good news though, is that if you’re a parent that is fortunate enough to stay at home and take care of the kids, there is plenty that you can do to keep the kids occupied, happy and fulfilled in the many sunny weeks ahead of you all until you get to the new school year all over again.

What you need is a breakdown of things that you can do to give your kids the summer vacation that they will always remember. With the tips below, you can keep everyone in the family happy without busting your bank account to do it.

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Staying At Home

If you aren’t going to be getting out too much – whether that’s due to the weather or to funds – you need some ideas of what you can do around the home. You can do something nice with the garden to make it an appropriate and fun place to play, and you can use these ideas below for doing things inside.

  • Movie day – everyone grabs a duvet and takes turns choosing a film. You can also have someone nominate a snack, whether that’s flavoured homemade popcorn or rice crispy cereal snacks.
  • Cooking lessons – children don’t just learn at school, they learn with their hands at home as well. Have a few days teaching the kids to make their own recipes and give them total control over what they cook. It’s exciting, messy and they learn something new.
  • Build a den – get as many boxes and materials as possible with the kids and start a den-building competition. You could all be judges and choose to rate each den out of ten, before making one big super den!

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Going Out

You may decide to get out of the house as much as possible during the summer break, which means you are all soaking up the sun and getting a good amount of exercise.

  • Going away – book a vacation away with the kids for a few days if funds allow. You can sort this much earlier in the year so that the cost is spread and doesn’t take you everything that you have in the bank to make it happen.
  • Treasure Hunt – organise a treasure hunt in the back yard or the neighbourhood. You can rope in their friends, too, and organise a prize for those who solve the puzzle.
  • Camp out – just because your kids haven’t gone to summer camp, doesn’t mean you can’t have a summer camp in your own backyard. Pitch a tent, get a fire going and cook up some tasty s’mores. Where the weather doesn’t help, you can always migrate back inside!

Make this summer the most memorable yet!

The Best Christmas Present Ever is Our Baby Boy!

The best Christmas Present for 2017, that is. I don’t want our sweet 4 year old girl, Avery stumbling upon this post one day and forever having her feelings hurt. I promise, Avery, you were definitely the best Christmas present ever for 2013. 🙂

I don’t find much time for writing lately, and this one will be short, but I wanted to give an update to my last post about how we are having a boy. Since then, she grew from the 15 weeks pregnant pic in that post….

15 weeks with our baby boy.

…..to 36 weeks pregnant.

And right before hitting the 39 week mark, she gave birth to our boy!

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Hello, World, I’m here!

Going Mom gave birth naturally at an awesome birth center near our home to a handsome little guy named Weston on Sunday, November 19th, 2017. Just 5 days after his big sister’s birthday; talk about close!

People kept telling us the second child comes fast and makes for a quick labor, but my wife and I were both shocked at how fast the entire birth went. Her water broke at home around 7:50 pm and he was born that same night at 10:10 pm. We are forever thankful for having such an amazing midwifes and doula crew who knew how to support us, ensure everyone was safe, and keep calm throughout the process. Thanks to them, we had our boy in our arms, safe and sound to hold and snuggle with.

 

Our friends with 2 or more kids told us going from having a kid, to having kids is different, simply put, and so far that’s holding true. Different as in hard, different as in wonderful, different as in, awesome, different as in….well, you get, it’s a mixed bag of emotions! But I’ll be damned if it’s not the sweetest thing seeing Avery being a proud big sister.

It will take some time to adjust to not getting all of the attention, but overall, I’d say she’s coping fairly well. We get Going Mom at home for the next 4 months since her job has an awesome maternity leave policy, and man do we need it just to get somewhat adjusted to life as a family of four. Besides the crazy sleep schedule and constant diaper changes, I’d say we’re doing just fine though. We even picked out our (real) Christmas tree together and took the obligatory selfie.

We made Wes cut down the tree, that’s why he’s sleeping in the pic.

I’m cutting it short since I need sleep. Once things settle, I’ll try for more details, but until then, keep up to date on my Facebook and Instagram pages if you’d like.

If I don’t post before, have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

We’re Having A Boy! + The Best Happy Birthday Song

Yes, you heard read that right, Going Mom is pregnant with our second (and last) child and I’m happy to announce we’re having a boy!

15 weeks with our baby boy.

If you’ve been following me for a while, like before I’ve been mostly absent the past few months, you might know how difficult it was the first time around. This time, as we were preparing to go through the long process with the same clinic, I came home to see my wife hardly able to contain her excitement from several positive pregnancy test results.

It’s so hard to believe everything happened naturally, but we are ever so grateful to know we are having a boy, a freakin’ boy, and totally skipped the big needles, stress, and waiting for what feels like forever to know anything. Seeing my beautiful wife with her growing baby belly fills me with happiness every day.

Okay, that might be a lie…..we’re past the first trimester now, but damn, it makes the typical fraternity hell week look like a cake walk. Ladies, please don’t come knocking on my door with pitchforks and torches, I’m not trying to have a pity party for myself. I say that it was miserable for all of us.

I felt bad for my wife while simultaneously fearing for my life too. Thankfully a little prenatal yoga along with Avery’s support helped out.

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Now we’re through the worse part (right?) and things are stabilizing for the time being. Avery mostly understands that there’s a growing baby in mommy’s belly and that she’s going to have a little brother, but there’s still some things she has yet to figure out. One thing being how to name a boy!

We are undecided at this point, but Avery insists on the name Crake. Now she has an imagination on par with the kids in Neverland on Hook. Give her an empty plate for dinner and she’d have an epic food fight just like in the movie. But, no, we will not name our boy Crake. Right now, the two names sticking out are Jaxon and Weston. I’m leaning more on Weston, or Wes, and Kelley likes Jaxon, or Jax. What do you think this guy looks like?

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Any suggestions are welcome as we’re both waiting for the one name that just sticks out. Parents with 2+ kids, did you have a harder time naming your first kid or the ones after?

While I don’t plan on blogging that often, it’s a nice outlet at times, and I really wanted to share the awesome news. Spending more time with Avery and Kelley always takes priority though, and I feel less stressed when I’m not trying to write x amount of posts. Reducing stress is something I really need to……errrr, stress now that I’m another year older as of the 8th anyway.

So that’s all for now, I just want to leave you with the best birthday gift/stress reducer I could ask for.

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FYI – her imagination is what spawned the creation of her empty toothbrush box with pink bubble wrap microphone. Love that girl!