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Separating Family Life & Business Life The Right Way

Working from home is a privilege, but it’s one of those privileges that comes with pitfalls. When you finally find a job that allows you the freedom to work from home, it’s terrific. You can finally ditch the long commute while keeping the same salary level. You can save money for your next family vacation because you do not have to spend it on fuel or work lunches anymore. You get valuable time back that you didn’t have before because you were so busy in the office or commuting all the time, so you have the time to be Dad again. It’s amazing how you can be productive with your time, not spending it away from the kids.

The only downside is that your working persona and your ‘Dad’ persona need to remain separate under the same roof, and that’s not always easy. Setting boundaries with your work life are essential, and you have to maintain those boundaries where possible. Below, you’ll read some of the ways that you can separate your work and family life when you are working from your house.

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  • Keep Work & Family Paperwork Apart. You need a specified office space with room for all of your documentation. This requires you to invest a little in shelving and filing cabinets like this one. If you want to go one further with your mail not being mixed up with the family, you can take a professional route and buy a PO box with web access. It’s necessary for you to maintain a professional image to the outside world, and you can easily do that with some outside help. When you are a telecommuter, your office is everywhere. This means you can work from your local coffee shop if you want to. Even so, you need an office that holds your work and gives you a quiet space for telephone calls.
  • Keep Office Hours. You need to act like you’re in the office during the office hours you usually work. You can, of course, be flexible. You can do the school runs and attend events for your children, but if you start doing it too often, it can really mess up your productivity. Try and keep a consistent schedule where possible so that your family is aware that you need to work and when.
  • Ignore Household Distractions. Chores can wait when you are supposed to be working. The clean clothes that need putting away can wait until your working day finishes. Distractions can pull you away from your work, which will delay you in completing what you need to end your day. Ignore the distractions and wait until after work.
  • Create Boundaries. Don’t mix work into household chores. Opening your laptop while you cook is confusing to the family dynamic. Leave your work in the office and be engaged with your family instead.

It may not always be easy to create a boundary with your family, but it is possible if you want to ensure you don’t bleed your two worlds together.

Sacrifices Great Dads Make For Their Kids

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As a young man, the emphasis was on doing what you wanted to do. In many ways, you could say you were selfish and proud. After all, life is for the living when there are no responsibilities. Now you’re a father, it’s no longer acceptable. The family comes first, and that means the children.

But, finding the right balance is difficult. You don’t want to be the boring old man who sits and watches TV all week. So, how does a dad know what to sacrifice and what to keep?

The answers are underneath for those who need guidance and reassurances.

The Old And The Young

Just because you’re in your forties and fifties doesn’t mean you don’t like watching football with the guys and drinking pitchers. And, every now and again, it’s okay to see how many wings you can eat in one sitting at the bar. But, the lifestyle of going out and drinking for every match should be a thing of the past. To begin with, guys from previous generations can’t keep up with the young kids in the drinking stakes. Secondly, quality time with the family is more important and enjoyable, especially when the kids take an interest in the sports you love.

Easy Rider

Back in the day, you loved riding the hog from A to Z and back again. You couldn’t get enough of the wind flowing through your hair and the adrenaline spike it caused. To this day, you still love to take out the chopper whenever possible, to the dismay of your wife and kids. And, they are right: it’s time to retire the motorcycle. You may never have had to hire a lawyer to represent your injury case before, but it doesn’t mean bikes are safe. It could happen at any time and you’ve got more to lose now. Dads, for the sake of their kids’ futures, should stick to driving minivans.

Mean Greens

Now that you’re married and have kids, it’s time to let go a little and enjoy middle-age. The problem is cholesterol: it’s hard to keep it down as your metabolism slows. So, eating junk food and not putting an emphasis on your diet may shave years off your life, time you could spend with kids and grandkids. There’s no need to become a veggie or a vegan, yet dads should keep track of their calorie intake. In particular, salt and refined sugars as they are leading factors in the onset of heart disease.

Dream Job

Parents need to have lives too, and fathers should enjoy their career and get the most out of it as possible. But, when it impacts the family is when things start to get tough. A dream job is something you worked for your entire life, yet is it worth uprooting the kids and disturbing their lives? A move will have a lasting effect on them and it’s something to consider before saying yes.

Anyway, isn’t your dream job to be the world’s best dad?

The Vacation Rental Market is Hot in Pagosa Springs, Colorado, Here’s Why You Should Buy Now

With all of the responsibilities of the holidays I often find myself needing a vacation from my holiday vacation. Which is why I love the idea of having a winter vacation property to retreat to after the New Year. Now, if you’re like me,having a house you visit only once a year may seem like an unattainable luxury but purchasing a rental property in a winter vacation destination could actually be a wise investment. Especially when you want a place that offers a fun-filled family adventure!

The key to finding an amazing rental property isn’t just knowing the best locations, it’s knowing what locations are up and coming. I discovered a new report from the vacation rental pros at Vacasa that has confirmed something that I’ve believed about the Pagosa Springs, CO winter rental market for a long time.

It’s primed to explode.

Vacasa applied their prodigious data analysis skills to the copious amounts of data they have on vacation rental markets around the country and pin pointed the Top 10 best places to buy a winter vacation home right now.

Winter month occupancy in winter vacation destinations are up almost 25% year over year since 2016.That means that winter vacation destinations are a real trend. But there’s more to finding a truly lucrative vacation property than proximity to skiing and snowboarding.

Vacasa’s Winter Vacation Report identifies the markets with the highest average occupancy increases in the winter months and chose the ones with the best one-year return on investment.

Pagosa Springs, CO was #7 on the list.

Here’s a little more detail on why Pagosa Springs, CO made the list:

Pagosa Springs, CO‘s Stats:

Median Annual Rental Revenue: $21,720

Median Home Price: $287,500

One-Year Return Rate: 4.6%

As you can see, Pagosa Springs, CO’slow median home price and relatively high amount of annual rental revenue offers a very competitive one-year return rate. It’s considered one of the best-kept secrets with it’s devoted skiing enthusiasts willing to travel a little longer for top notch skiing and shorter lift lines.

You can check out the report here. So if you’re in the market for a winter vacation home, Vacasa has the information you need to help you get into Pagaso Springs, CO.