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I'm an ex-mutual fund accountant who left the cubicle world to be a stay-at-home dad to my beautiful little girl, Avery, who entered our life on 11/15/13 and handsome little boy, Wes, who joined our family on 11/19/17. Also happily married to my wife, Kelley, as of 8/17/07. Sorry ladies... :) Fitness and nutrition is of the utmost importance in our family and we strive to reflect this in our daily life. I always prepare our meals at home and only go out if it's a special occasion, and even then I tend to not get much. Food should be fun and a joy to eat, not something quickly consumed from a fast food chain or scarf down before the next meeting. I have come from strictly logging high miles to train for the next marathon to keeping exercise varied and focusing more on strength. I still enjoy going for a run when I can, but nothing crazy, and I prefer hill sprints while pushing my daughter, Avery in the stroller. She loves it and I get a great workout! I want to show the world how to appreciate their body and feed it real, wholesome food while moving more throughout the day. In doing so, everyone would be healthier, happier, and we'd all live in a better place as a result. I blog mainly about my life as a stay-at-home dad and frequently include reviews, participate in campaigns, and share my thoughts on fitness and nutrition. If you ever have any questions or thoughts to share, please reach out as I'm always open to listening or helping others however possible. That is, when I have free time since Avery is and my wife are the number one priorities!

Common Pains You Shouldn’t Ignore

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It’s never a good idea to ignore pain – pain is your body’s response that something is wrong. Some types of pain are more common than others and in some cases they may not be a sign of anything too serious and may subside by themselves. However, you should be wary of certain pains that could be a sign of a more severe problem. Below are just some of the common pains you should never ignore. 

Back and neck pain

An achy back or neck could be caused by a number of things such as poor posture, wearing uncomfortable shoes or carrying heavy loads incorrectly. Such pains may only be a temporary strain at first, but could turn into permanent pain if you don’t change your habits (i.e. correcting your posture, wearing comfortable flat shoes and learning the right form when lifting).

Pains that develop suddenly after an accident should be a particular concern. You should see a doctor as soon as you can to make sure you haven’t got a spinal injury. If not checked on and treated, certain back or neck injuries that may seem minor can lead to paralysis or even death. 

Joint pain

Like neck and back pain, the majority of joint pain is caused by repetitive strain from things like poor posture or incorrect footwear. It’s important to correct any bad habits before such a pain becomes permanent.

Joint pain following an accident is something to look into straight away. Many people develop injuries while running and never follow them up, dismissing it as a strain when it could be a fracture. By seeking a doctor early, you can avoid making the injury worse by continuing to walk or run on it. 

A toothache

Toothaches are usually a sign or decay or an infection. If ignored, toothaches can get worse. Infection may also spread to other teeth and even parts of the body.

If you get a toothache, it’s a good idea to book an appointment with your local dentist. Don’t wait for a toothache to go away on its own – while this can happen, it could be a sign that an infection has got so bad that it has killed off your nerves in your tooth.

Chest pain

Chest pain should never be ignored as it could be a lung or heart problem. This is usually a very different type of pain to something innocuous like heartburn and may be accompanied by symptoms such as shortness of breath or dizziness. You should seek medical attention immediately if you are experiencing pain in your chest. 

Intense abdomen pain

Stomach aches are very common and could be caused by something that isn’t too serious such as gas, a stitch, menstruation, mild food poisoning or IBS triggers. Intense pain in the abdomen is usually a sign of something more and should not be ignored. 

Appendicitis, pancreatitis, kidney stones, urine infections and ulcers are some of the more serious problems that could be causing intense abdominal pain. You should see a doctor straight away to check it’s nothing serious. 

A severe headache

We’ve all experienced mild headaches from stress and dehydration. Severe headaches are usually a sign of something beyond this – and should never be ignored. It could be a migraine or it could be a brain issue that needs urgent attention. 

Headaches following injuries should always be chased up. This is particularly the case if they are accompanied by dizziness and nausea. 

Protecting All Areas Of Your Health When You Are A Dad

When it comes to your health, there are many areas that you are going to have to think about and look after. It’s not just exercising and eating well that is going to contribute to your health, and that is something that you need to remember. While it’s true that these two things are important, there is more to life. In this article, we’re going to be taking a look at some of the other areas of health that you are going to need to consider, so keep reading if you would like to find out more.

Oral Health

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The first thing that you are going to need to do is look after your oral health. While this might not be a massive deal right now, it could be in the future. For example, if your oral health isn’t very good, you may find that your teeth start falling out, that they turn yellow or even brown in some cases, that you get a lot of cavities and find chewing difficult. Also, if your teeth aren’t being looked after, why would your kids bother to look after theirs?

If you know that there is something wrong with your teeth, you can always head down to your dentist and get it checked out. They will give you some advice about oral care, and they might even suggest something like clear aligners to you if you have bent teeth. Make sure that you look into clear aligners cost before you agree to anything, but also ensure that you are doing what is best for your health.

Hearing Health

Your hearing health is also going to be another area that you are going to have to think about. Too many people don’t worry about this, but most of us are going to experience some level of hearing loss in our lives. It’s unavoidable really, but you can slow it down so that you are not 30 with hearing loss that is extreme all because you wouldn’t look after yourself. Stay away from loud noises as much as possible, and when you do have to be around them make sure that you are using earplugs. You might not look like the coolest guy around, but at least your hearing health will be far better than anyone else’s.

Overall Physical Health

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Finally, your overall physical health is important. Make sure that you are getting enough sleep, drinking enough water and so on. You don’t want your body to give up on you, so make sure that it has everything it needs.

We hope that you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the things that you are going to need to do if you want to protect all areas of your health when you are a dad. It’s not as though you can afford not to take care of yourself when you have your kids counting on you, so make sure that you are doing everything in your power to stay healthy. We wish you the very best of luck with this.

Signs You Need To Take A Break From Work

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We all deserve a break from work now and again. Such a break can be important for letting our mind and body rest, as well as helping us to gain perspective and focus on what really matters. 

Many of us don’t use up all of our vacation time – sometimes going months and even years without a break. Sometimes we push it too far, damaging our health and our relationships beyond repair. It’s important to know exactly when it’s time to take a break. Below are a few signs that you need to take some time off. 

You’re in physical pain as a result of work

If your job is causing your physical pain, it’s a clear sign that you need some rest. This could include back pain from manual labor or carpal tunnel syndrome from typing at a computer. Taking time off could allow you to get the treatment you need and could help your body to heal. Keep working through the pain and you could cause irreversible damage.

Consider seeing a chiropractor or a physical therapist if you have aches and pains. Avoid activities that make the pain worse and take your time to rest. Some employers may be able to offer absence pay or even an insurance payout if the pain is a result of poor health and safety measures.

You feel mentally drained

Stress at work can physically and mentally wear us down. If you feel yourself getting depression or anxiety, it’s a good sign that you should take a break.

If your depression or anxiety is serious, you may want to consider seeing a therapist. In many cases, simply taking a break from work could be all you need for your mental wellbeing. You should also take the time to consider ways of reducing stress at work. Depression or anxiety may even be a sign that it’s time to quit. 

You’re losing focus and motivation at work

Do you feel as if you can’t concentrate at work? Have you lost your passion for the job? A lack of focus and motivation could be another reason to take some time off.

Sometimes a break is needed to reassess our values and determine what is important. A break could help you to decide if a job is no longer for you or it could help you to come back refreshed with new ideas and a new sense of purpose. 

You’re not getting enough sleep

Regular sleep deprivation can have serious negative health effects in the long run such as increasing the risk of heart disease.It’s possible you could be working long hours and sacrificing sleep as a result, or you could find that the stress of work is keeping you awake at night. In either case, it could be worth taking some time off.

This time off could help you to catch up on sleep. You’ll be able to return to work refreshed – you may also want to take the time off to consider how you can improve your sleep quality whether it’s reducing hours or taking sleep medication to combat insomnia. 

You’re not spending enough time with your family

Do your kids or partner complain that they’re not able to spend enough time with you? Do you regularly go to work before the kids are up and come home after they’ve gone to bed? Not spending enough time with your family could be something you regret in the long run. It could even lead to a strained and damaged relationship.

By taking time off, you can rekindle your relationship with your family and build lasting memories. It may even be a chance to consider ways of improving your work/life balance so that you see your family more often.