4 Areas Of Support You Can Offer To Your Aging Parents

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Your parents aren’t getting any younger. It’s something that they and you will have to deal with, that inevitable fact of life that affects us all. 

And as your parents get older, it might be that they need your extra help and support in their lives. Where once they did the same for you, you might one day have to return the favor. If you feel too overwhelmed or live too far away to care for you parents, you can utilize the help of an in-home care service. Some home healthcare providers use home health software to update notes and communicate effectively with clients, so you can have a hands-on approach, even if you live far away. Having an overview of your loved ones care can give you peace of mind, while supporting an aging parent.

Chances are, you don’t need us to remind you of the kinds of support you can offer to them. If you have elderly parents, you might have taken up the mantle of help and support already. It might be that they have come to you themselves to ask for help. Still, a little reminder is never harmful, so consider these areas of support that you might be able to offer your aging parents.

#1: Daily living support

Particularly if your parents are frail and unable to manage certain aspects of their lives themselves, you might want to help them with shopping, making meals, and home maintenance. You might want to transport them to and from medical appointments too, and find them the home help they need for extra assistance with their daily living. 

#2: Health support

Some people neglect their health needs as they get older. This might be on a conscious level, or it could be because their ailing health makes them forgetful or unable to  help themselves. This is where you can make a difference, as you might be able to recognize the signs of age-related health issues that they might have missed. You might also have the opportunity to improve their health by encouraging them to exercise, perhaps by inviting them to your family outings. You can encourage them to eat well too, perhaps by arranging a meals-on-wheels service for them. And you can research areas of health advice on their behalf, such as tips on getting used to hearing aids, and suggestions on managing chronic conditions.

#3: Social support

Many older people become isolated and lonely as they age, especially after losing their peers and partner due to age and disease. Such loneliness can lead to depression and other mental health problems, so your support in this area should be considered vital. As a means of help, you might want to phone your parent/s regularly, invite them to family occasions, and visit them whenever you can. There are often senior befriending agencies available too, so get in touch with the relevant charities and businesses on behalf of your parents. And enter terms such as senior activity centers near me into Google, as you should be able to find local hobby groups that can give your aging parents a social outlet. 

#4: Housing support

Many older people prefer to age in place, so if this is possible for your ageing parents, look into ways their homes can be adapted to support their various needs. So, you might install mobility fixtures around their home, for example. On the other hand, your ageing parents might get to the point where they can’t manage alone, so you might consider assisted living options very much like Chestnut Park at Cleveland Circle. They are a care home which prides itself on giving your loved one the best possible quality of life. You also have the possibility of them coming to live with you if you are flexible enough to support them yourself. Speak to your parents about their preferences, and seek professional support for further advice. 

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Three Ways To Win The Healthy Eating Battle With Kids

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When it comes to nutrition, most of us are pretty good on the basics by now. Eating a rainbow of seasonal fruits and vegetables, adding probiotic foods and supplements to our diets, finding healthy recipes that we can batch cook and prepare in advance and staying hydrated are top of a lot of people’s must-do lists. When it comes to kids, however, sometimes healthy eating isn’t so straightforward. A lot of conscientious parents with junk food loving kids or little fussy eaters in the family are in despair trying to enforce the rules – no dessert on a weeknight, eat all your vegetables –  and it can result in a lot of stress. As parents, it’s important that we approach food holistically with our children. Eating isn’t just about nutrition –  food is also there for fun, for comfort, for celebration and so much more. Valuing healthy food and teaching your children how to eat well shouldn’t be a daily battle.

Take A Step Back

If you’ve been caught up for a while in disagreements with your children about what they eat – perhaps you’re parenting a fussy toddler who will only eat plain pasta and freaks out at the sight of anything green hitting their plate, or a picky teen who is becoming body conscious – it’s hard to always do the right thing. We get so caught up and focused on a single issue, such as them finishing what is on their plate, or eating a certain amount of carrots before being allowed to leave the table. Take a step back for a moment. It’s perfectly normal for kids appetites to fluctuate with mood, growth stage and level of activity. If there are a few unbalanced days, try not to worry too much. Trying to control the amount your child eats is often a losing battle, and although it can be frustrating, try to focus more on doing the job of providing healthy meals, while your kid follows their own signals on how much they want to eat. Unless there is a medical issue, it’s far better to allow children to regulate the amount they eat and learn to listen to satiety signals in their body.

Involve Them In Cooking

Kids are generally far more interested in what’s on their plate if you can involve them in how it got there. Simple ideas, such as starting a vegetable garden and growing thing together, letting them help to make a simple and fun dish like zucchini bolognese, or finding healthier cook-at-home versions of favorite treats, like the low carb cookies recipe here can make them keener to eat the right things. Another big hit is usually ‘build your own’ meals like pizzas, salad bars or fajitas – just set up a station of healthy ingredients and let your kids do the rest.

Don’t Forbid Treats

Generally banning or otherwise overly demonizing any food is not a good idea, as it quite frequently leads to eating issues later in life. Work on introducing more healthy options that your child enjoys instead. Not keen on broccoli? Don’t push on that – but offer alternatives like sugar snap peas or mashed sweet potato that may go down better. And remember to allow the odd cookie or bag of chips – it’s okay every once in a while.

Ice Skating in Santa Clara is an Amazing Time

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If you’re going to be in Santa Clara this winter and you love the holidays, then you’re in luck! You may not know this, but Santa Clara has a lot going on to get locals and visitors alike in the holiday spirit.

One of the city’s most beloved traditions is visiting its beautiful outdoor ice rink.

As of November 21, you can grab your ice skates and hit the rink at Central Park in Santa Clara, California. Do not miss your chance to skate on this ice rink and enjoy the winter wonderland of fun this holiday season!

Santa Clara Ice Rink

This outdoor ice rink is only available from November 21, 2019, through January 20, 2020, at Central Park in Santa Clara, California. General admission starts at $10 for youth (ages 4-12) and adults (ages 13 and above) $15 with skates included in the price. Children ages three and under can skate for free!

Ice Skating Lessons

Ice skating lessons are six weeks long, starting December 7. Regardless of what your ability is on the ice, there are lessons available for everyone! Classes are $130 and include skate rental, 30 minutes of instruction time, and 30 minutes of practice time.

Private Events

If you want to make a really special evening, you can reserve a special time for your own party. This could be for a school event, corporate event, church activity, or a gathering of friends! The rink is entirely for your exclusive use, and you will have control of the music playlist. Times are available before opening and after closing time for private rentals. You can even request a private instructor to join your party!

City of Santa Clara Tree Lighting

Join the annual Holiday Tree Lighting in Central Park! The tree lighting will begin at 7:00 pm, so be sure to arrive with enough time to grab a good view! Holiday festivities include ice skating, Santa’s Village, fireworks, and local food vendors all available for you to explore. The well-lit Christmas tree is the ideal background for a holiday photo for your memories.

Local Accommodations

Do you live out of the area? No problem! Plan a trip and grab a room at any one of the hotels in Santa Clara, CA. Enjoy the afternoon ice skating in a winter wonderland, and pamper yourself at night with a comfortable stay.

Hyatt House Santa Clara

Hyatt House Santa Clara is perfect for short or extended-stays for all kinds of travelers. Guests receive complimentary Wi-Fi, a breakfast buffet, and complimentary shuttle service is available from San Jose International Airport. In addition, the shuttle service can provide transportation within a 5-mile radius for no charge!

Hilton Santa Clara

Located within walking distance to Levi’s Stadium, Hilton Santa Clara offers an onsite convenience store, room service, and a pool available for guests to use. Take your pick between the La Fontana Restaurant for Californian and Mediterranean-inspired dishes or grab a cocktail from the La Fontana Lounge.

Aloft Santa Clara

This contemporary hotel is definitely for those that enjoy stylish, high tech designs. Aloft Santa Clara offers spa showers as well as a lively bar with relaxing music and cocktails. Be sure to look into their discounts for seniors or military prior to booking.

When you’re in Santa Clara this winter, make sure you catch the holiday spirit! You do not want to miss your chance to skate at Central Park in Santa Clara. This is a great chance to build a unique Christmas memory for everyone in the family.

An at-home dad on a mission to keep it real when it comes to food, fun, and raising a healthy, happy family.